let the tears come and fall... they wont do as much bad as the screams and shouts and rants! when both are to make things come to u faster its always better to let some tears fall then some remarks hurled around! God loves tears more then anger filled rants to say the same thing!
its never assured that these tears will be lessened for the future... but nor it is promised that the need to be angry will be minimized either!
one saves the damage one causes it further!