So i was watching my favorite movie Dil Starring Madhuri and Amir Khan when i got a call from a number... i didnt recognize...
i picked it up... and there on the other line was a sweet sophisticated voice of a young man, and before he cud say more i realized it was 11: 25 pm...
i cut the call... focusing on the words and the sound of the voice...
he messaged me... saying he is the same person... who was messaging me 4=5 months back... and all he wants is to talk like a friend... and he is not interested in me... but wants some advise on a relationship problem...
and i like a girl who wanted to help someone... agreed to message back... and then he called... telling me the whole story and a detailed snapshot of the 5 yrs story with a Girl who was 15 when they met and now is 20 ... and this boy is off mere age 23.
I listened... because he resembled someone i had known with similar problem... and i cud sense the same tones and things...
I dont know why?
But i felt as if God wanted me to know something here...
A person who has closed herself to everyone... who would never indulge with ppl... picks an unknown call from a person who only sounded nice on the ph... makes me realise how easy it is for me to lend an ear to someone... and talk to someone... care for someone and then get hooked on to someone...
And all this while waiting for the man i cud eventually marry and have a beautiful blessed family life with...
All come except him... and i wonder why?
This person is struggling with himself for breaking up with a Girl who he loves but cant trust or be happy with... he needs that guard which will stop him from reaching out and doing wats not right...
We all at times... want this kind of support where we need someone to pull us back when we are going in the wrong direction...which allures us tempts us... and excites us... but is totally wrong for us
And although i find it hard... i am glad for an opportunity to help a young guy to find his sanity back.. but...
a woman who herself is insane in love... how can she offer sanity to a falling man...
Only a sane and strong woman can support a falling man... and only a strong and steady man can support a falling woman.:)
and that too if they are committed to the job an unfailing commitment it takes!
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